That’s right, 10 days straight working starting this past Friday. My next day off is not tomorrow, but the Monday after. Oh so awesome. At least I only work til 9:30 tonight.

It’s been so damn hot these past few days, too, it sucks. I want it to be winter already, I hate 100 degree weather.

We’re getting a puppy and her names is going to be Bossy. I want to pick her up already, but Javy keeps telling me later.

Ok kids are fighting, gotta go.

Last night I was scheduled for 5:30 to 9:30 but I ended up having to stay until 3am! Fun stuff….not really. I’m freakin tired as hell, I fell asleep almost 4am and then had to get up at 8 to get Serena ready for school and take her. Then I had to go to the bank and cash my check, go to the other bank and deposit it. I need a nap, badly, but idk if i’ll get one. Okay well Robert’s here n I gotta pick up Serena soon anyway, tata!

I signed up for paying post in February to try and make some extra cash. I had heard that it was decent enough as blog advertising goes. At first it was good, the requirements weren’t as strict as other sites I have tried. So I was approved almost immediately and had an opportunity just as quickly. Since that first opportunity I have had one other opportunity, that’s it in about 3 months. I haven’t gotten my payment for those 2 blogs because you need to have made at least $20 for them to send you payment, I only have $18. Since the site isn’t working for me I decided to ask them for the $18 to be sent to my paypal account ASAP so that I can cancel my paying post account. I have been emailing them everyday for about 2 weeks and have not gotten a response. They have “live help” which is always conveniently offline.

So to sum this up I do not recommend anyone sign up for a paying post account so that you can avoid being ignored as well.

Yesterday was finally the first day back to school for Serena after Spring break. She’s starting to get clingy again when I drop her off, hopefully she gets over it quick. It was also hot as hell yesterday, 103 degrees was the high here, according to Yahoo. Tee ball practice was short, only 45 minutes, because it was too hot for the kids. I feel bad for them because today’s there’s a game and it’s only supposed to be like 5 degrees cooler. It’s not Summer, why’s it so damn hot?!

I’m counting down the days until we can move. Right now they’re fixing up the new house so Javy’s uncle can move in, then we can move into his old house. It’s only 11 AM and I’m already thinking of turning on the air conditioner. I hate the heat.

Let me start off by saying that I am not one of those people who will try and tell you how to raise your kids. Now with that being said I have a little rant about how Ruben and Shelly let their kids act. They have 3 kids, a 12 yr old boy RJ, 4 yr old boy Sebastian and almost 2 yr old girl Sammy. Let’s start with RJ. This little boy has a big ass attitude, I know I’ve mentioned it before. He talks back to everyone, even his parents, and still gets whatever he wants. When they say he’s not going to get something, like new Jordan’s for example, he still gets them like a week later. Even if they make “deals” with him he doesn’t keep his end of it, but he still gets whatever it is the deal was for. How the hell is that kid going to learn responsibility and not to be lazy if he doesn’t have to do anything? He tried to tell me before that he is not lazy because he goes to school and plays sports. Big freaking deal! You don’t do shit around the house and when they do ask him to do something me bitches and moans the whole time I really hope Serena grows out of her attitude she’s been having lately. She better not be like RJ when she grows up.

The next 2 kids, Sebastian and Sammy, go together in my rant. They go into the pantry where all the cookies, chips and other sweets are whenever they feel like it and eat whatever they want. Do they get in trouble? Of course not, even if they haven’t eaten dinner yet. Yesterday for example they had 2 cookies each, some cheetohs and 2 popsicles each before dinner. They let them do things like that and then yell at them when they don’t want to eat their dinner. What do you expect? It bugs me because my kids see them eating these things and of course their going to want it too. I don’t want Serena eating junk before dinner because I know she won’t eat dinner if she does. So I look like the bad guy when I tell her no.

The next thing about Sebastian and Sammy is that they don’t want my kids to play with anything, but they can play with my kids toys. Here are a couple examples. Sebastian and Sammy have a blue rocking dog thing and Serena was playing with it yesterday. Sebastian came over and told her to get off. I told them both to get along and stop fighting all the time. Didn’t work. So I told Serena to get off and I told Sebastian I don’t want to see him playing with any of Serena and JJ’s toys since they can’t play with his. Another example is Serena found a pen, she wasn’t drawing with it or anything, she was just putting it in her pocket and Sebastian insisted on taking it away from her because it was “his”. WTF? I mean it’s a freakin pen.

I am going to be so happy once we move out of here. I don’t plan on coming back here for a very long time afterward. We might even be able to move out mid April, keeping my fingers crossed for that.

I know this is long and a big ass rant post, but I have one more thing to rant about: Tiffanie. Tiffanie is Javy’s uncle Mayo’s wife. She is like 22-23 and annoying as all hell. She volunteered to be the team mom for Serena’s T ball team, her son is on it as well. She has no idea wtf she’s doing. She got mad at me last week for not going to practices because I’m sick and I was supposed to “help her”. Help her do what? Pass out the fucked up snack and game schedules? I said if she needed help I would help her yeah, but I really think she can pass out papers by herself. She made the snack schedule before we even had all the kids on our team, so now she has to re-do it to include the newer kids. I don’t know if she will do it, but I sent her a message about it so we’ll see.  She also didn’t put phone numbers or email addys for the parents in case they need to change days or something. No list of the coaches either if we need to get in contact with the coach. The game schedule looks freaking retarded. It’s not lined up and she put Shetlan (the level of our team) on every single game line. Why? Seriously. Tuesday was our first game, she was late. Want to know why? Because her 18 month old daughter broke her arm. In 3 places. How? All I know is she fell when she was home with Tiffanie. It’s just a bunch of little and some big things like these that annoyg me and other members of the family. I’m sure I bug people in the family too, but at least I’m not an idiot and I know how to spell.

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We decided to put Serena in tee ball with four of her cousins around her age. Today was their first practice. She was so excited it was cute. We bought her a pink bat so she would know which one is hers since she’s the only girl on the team. I told her that she’s special since she’s the only girl and she has to show the boys how it’s done lol. Their next practice is Saturday at 10:30 in the morning. Tomorrow we have to pay her registrations fees though.

The 21st is going to be so busy for us it’s ridiculous. First of all Javy’s sisters and brother are coming down to San Diego for some boat cruise thing with his sister Lisa’a baby daddy who apparently is in the navy and stationed here. Lisa’s bringing Jayden (Javy’s nephew) but he can’t go on the boat so she asked us if we could watch him. We haven’t even met him yet since they live so far away and he’s only six months so I’m a little iffy on how he’s going to react to us babysitting. Also that day is opening game day for all the baseball and tee ball teams in Paradise Hills. On top of that we also have a baby shower we’re not entirely sure we’re going to yet, but it’s still a possibility. But the biggest news of March 21st is the DVD release of TWILIGHT!! I’m so excited I can’t wait to buy it.

Yesterday I was watching a little bit of Dr. Phil, he was talking to octo-mom and he met the babies too. That chick has some serious issues. I’m not going into a big thing about what I think of her, but I will say that she needs to seek some help for whatever’s going on in her brain. Maybe learn about disease symptoms for her brain. Seriously she needs to Learn about disease symptoms from Dr Daniel Amen, a specialist in brain SPECT imaging. You can also find Dr. Amen’s profile here. Ya never know what might be wrong with her head right?

If you don’t already know, we live with Javy’s aunt, uncle and their three kids right now. It’s cramped with two families in a three bedroom house, but it’s cheap for us. We pay rent for the room and food, which we thought was also helping them out since they were having trouble with the mortgage. Well this past Friday night was horrible. Javy’s other uncle, Mayo, came by and wanted some songs on his new ipod. He told Javy that if we did it we could have the ear phones since he only wants the ipod for his car. So I put the songs on it for him, which I had to get from Ruben and Shelly’s  (aunt and uncle we live with) computer. Later the ear phones came up somehow and RJ (Ruben’s son) said the ear phones were theirs since I got the sogns from their computer. Ruben agrees, I told them no because they had no idea what they were doing and I did it, so they’re mine. Ruben told RJ to get them, I told RJ not to come in my room. “It’s not your room, it’s OUR room,” he says. “I pay rent therefore it’s MY room,” I told him. We went back and forth, but he ended up staying out. Later Ruben told RJ, in front of me, that Shelly didn’t want him talking to me like that. GOOD. About damn time someone said something to that spoiled rude little fucker.

Moving on to later that night…Javy had gone with Ruben to his softball game. They were drinking, of course, so when they got home at around 11:30 Javy decided to make a quesadilla. Ruben started talking shit about him eating so late and making a mess in the kitchen. Javy told him that I would do the dishes in the morning. “Jennifer doesn’t do the dishes like Shelly,” Ruben told him. WTF?! Seriously what’s wrong with how I do dishes? As long as their clean, what else matters? I clean every day, except weekends because I don’t like feeling like they’re watching me clean, what more do you want from me? I am sick and tired of living here. I can’t wait to move. I want Javy’s godfather to get his new house already so we can rent the one he’s living in now. It’s going to be so much better.

I started this post on Monday…

I planned on posting last night at 8:51 because that would have been exactly one year since JJ was born, but I was in the shower so whatever I’m doing it now. I also planned on typing out a longer post, but I don’t think that’s going to happen.

On Valentine’s day Javy and I dropped the kids off at my mom’s house. We had to stop at home so Javy could change his shirt because his top button broke. Then finally we were off to Red Lobster. Good food + good drinks - kids = best night ever lol. After dinner we picked up JJ said goodnight to Serena, she stayed the night at grandma’s, came home watched cops and AMW then fell asleep.

Sunday was supposed to be JJ’s party, but the weather forcast was heavy rain so we cancelled it on Wednesday. By Friday however Sunday’s forcast was free of rain, but it was too late to call everyone back. Instead we just had a small get together with the grandparents and the neighbors. After we picked Serena up we went to the store and bought all the meat and veggies to make our carne asada and all the fixings. I learned how to make the red rice that I love and Javy has been wanting me to learn how to make. I also made green hot sauce for the first time. Last time I just watched Shellie make it, this time I did it all. I was so proud of myself lol. I made the rice, hot sauce and guacamole salsa The only things I didn’t make was the meat and chicken (that’s the griller’s duty) and the beans because Shellie started those while we were at the store. We also bought an amazing looking cake while we were at the store. Javy asked the lady to put Happy Birthday on it. The store we went to is a majority of Mexicans whose first language is not English, so it explains what she wrote, kind of. She wrote Happy Budhay or something like that lol it was hard to tell. Other than that the cake was delicious, it was a small round cake with cupcakes around it. It was all chocolate with chocolate covered strawberries and chocolate covered oreos on top, inside the cake was strawberry filling…omg yum. It was a fun day, until I had to do all the dishes lol. Pictures at the end of the post.

Not too much has been going on. Monday Javy had the day off. He was supposed to start at his new/old job. New because it’s a different place from last week, old because it’s his boss from a few years ago that came back to San Diego to open up shop again. His boss wasn’t in town as planned on Monday though. Apparently someone tried to break into his Infinity FX over the weekend in Arizona. But since they couldn’t take the car they decided to destroy it instead. The seats were slashed big time, the ignition all messed up and I forget what else. So the boss was stuck in Arizona on Monday trying to get everything sorted out. Tuesday Javy was home too and yesterday he came home early. Today he had a few things to do, so we’ll see when he gets home. Oh yeah not this coming Monday, but the Monday after Javy is going to Arizona for a couple days to do some jobs that his boss has left from the business he had in Arizona So I’m going to be stuck here with the kids by myself living in his aunt and uncle’s house. I already feel in the way, but without Javy here it’s going to be worse.

Okay this is long enough…how about some pictures.

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I actually won the Donney & Burke bag that Lisa was giving away! Can you believe it?! I can’t. I’ll post pics as soon as I get it. Thank you again SOOO much Lisa!

Today is JJ’s 1st birthday I’ll post about today and Valentine’s later, with pics I promise.