Let me start off by saying that I am not one of those people who will try and tell you how to raise your kids. Now with that being said I have a little rant about how Ruben and Shelly let their kids act. They have 3 kids, a 12 yr old boy RJ, 4 yr old boy Sebastian and almost 2 yr old girl Sammy. Let’s start with RJ. This little boy has a big ass attitude, I know I’ve mentioned it before. He talks back to everyone, even his parents, and still gets whatever he wants. When they say he’s not going to get something, like new Jordan’s for example, he still gets them like a week later. Even if they make “deals” with him he doesn’t keep his end of it, but he still gets whatever it is the deal was for. How the hell is that kid going to learn responsibility and not to be lazy if he doesn’t have to do anything? He tried to tell me before that he is not lazy because he goes to school and plays sports. Big freaking deal! You don’t do shit around the house and when they do ask him to do something me bitches and moans the whole time I really hope Serena grows out of her attitude she’s been having lately. She better not be like RJ when she grows up.

The next 2 kids, Sebastian and Sammy, go together in my rant. They go into the pantry where all the cookies, chips and other sweets are whenever they feel like it and eat whatever they want. Do they get in trouble? Of course not, even if they haven’t eaten dinner yet. Yesterday for example they had 2 cookies each, some cheetohs and 2 popsicles each before dinner. They let them do things like that and then yell at them when they don’t want to eat their dinner. What do you expect? It bugs me because my kids see them eating these things and of course their going to want it too. I don’t want Serena eating junk before dinner because I know she won’t eat dinner if she does. So I look like the bad guy when I tell her no.

The next thing about Sebastian and Sammy is that they don’t want my kids to play with anything, but they can play with my kids toys. Here are a couple examples. Sebastian and Sammy have a blue rocking dog thing and Serena was playing with it yesterday. Sebastian came over and told her to get off. I told them both to get along and stop fighting all the time. Didn’t work. So I told Serena to get off and I told Sebastian I don’t want to see him playing with any of Serena and JJ’s toys since they can’t play with his. Another example is Serena found a pen, she wasn’t drawing with it or anything, she was just putting it in her pocket and Sebastian insisted on taking it away from her because it was “his”. WTF? I mean it’s a freakin pen.

I am going to be so happy once we move out of here. I don’t plan on coming back here for a very long time afterward. We might even be able to move out mid April, keeping my fingers crossed for that.

I know this is long and a big ass rant post, but I have one more thing to rant about: Tiffanie. Tiffanie is Javy’s uncle Mayo’s wife. She is like 22-23 and annoying as all hell. She volunteered to be the team mom for Serena’s T ball team, her son is on it as well. She has no idea wtf she’s doing. She got mad at me last week for not going to practices because I’m sick and I was supposed to “help her”. Help her do what? Pass out the fucked up snack and game schedules? I said if she needed help I would help her yeah, but I really think she can pass out papers by herself. She made the snack schedule before we even had all the kids on our team, so now she has to re-do it to include the newer kids. I don’t know if she will do it, but I sent her a message about it so we’ll see.  She also didn’t put phone numbers or email addys for the parents in case they need to change days or something. No list of the coaches either if we need to get in contact with the coach. The game schedule looks freaking retarded. It’s not lined up and she put Shetlan (the level of our team) on every single game line. Why? Seriously. Tuesday was our first game, she was late. Want to know why? Because her 18 month old daughter broke her arm. In 3 places. How? All I know is she fell when she was home with Tiffanie. It’s just a bunch of little and some big things like these that annoyg me and other members of the family. I’m sure I bug people in the family too, but at least I’m not an idiot and I know how to spell.

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Javy’s brother, sisters, their boyfriends and nephew came down this weekend. They drove down Friday and stopped by to say hi before they went to their hotel. Saturday they dropped of Jayden (nephew) for the day since they were going on a ship and he couldn’t go. I guess Manny, Lisa’s boyfriend and baby daddy, is in or going into the navy and they all got to check out one of the ships and go out into the ocean. So we had three kids for a day. I now want to wait a long time to have another baby lol. He’s a cutie and not much trouble, but when you have a one year old and a 4 year old already it’s a little difficult. We went to the T-ball field for pictures, and that was pretty much it. We were invited to a baby shower, but I’m still sick, JJ is sick and Jayden has bronchitis so we decided to stay home. I also didn’t get Twilight yet

Saturday night Ruben had a carne asada since his birthday was on Wednesday, so we invited Javy’s sisters and brother to stay for some food and drinks. It was fun, even though my ears are messed up and I can’t hear well right now. The boyfriends, Manny and Cesar, and Javy’s sister Monica are some alkies lol. They all took a shot of some wierd named tequila, they called it wobble wobble cuz it made them wobble wobble. Cesar thought it was a good idea to jump on the trampoline drunk. I really don’t know why. He immediately went to the side of the house to throw up. That was their cue to go back to the hotel. About half an hour or so after they left Lisa called because they were lost. They needed to catch the 125 south, but she went north and they ended up on the 8 west. I’m not sure how that happened, but it did.

Sunday they were planning on going to six flags on the way home, I knew it wouldn’t happen the moment they left on Saturday night. They were going to stop by in the morning to drop off the blanket and pillow they borrowed and say bye. They didn’t come by until like two o’clock. All in all the weekend was a good one, except for the sickness. Here are some pics for your enjoyment

Monday night I started feeling sick, you know body aches, sore throat and general ick feeling. Tuesday I did not want to get out of bed at all, of course I had to so I could take care of the kids. My throat was in so much pain it hurt to swallow, it was swollen big time. On top of that, my back was killing me. Wednesday I was maybe a little bit better, but not much. Thursday early in the morning JJ woke up crying and sounded like his throat was messed up too, so Javy took the day off to help with him since I was still sick. When we all woke up for the day JJ seemed fine, little runny nose but that’s it. I was feeling better too, even though my throat was still swollen. When the night came the pain in my throat was traveling up to my right ear as well. It sucked. I could barely move my neck all week too because my throat was swollen. Today JJ had a fever in the morning, gave him some motrin and then he was fine when he woke up for the day. I think he just has a cold now. I feel much better too. My throat hurts a little bit, but I can eat and drink today which is a big plus. I’m looking forward to dinner, I want a burger lol. Javy’s aunt and uncle and their kids can’t eat meat because it’s Friday. They can’t eat meat on Fridays until Easter due to their religion. Good thing Javy’s like me and he isn’t religious, I couldn’t stand not eating meat, even if it’s one day a week lol. I asked Ruben why they can’t eat meat and he said because of their religion I told him I knew that but why. He couldn’t tell me. How can you do something just because they tell you to, and not even know why? I don’t understand that.

We decided to put Serena in tee ball with four of her cousins around her age. Today was their first practice. She was so excited it was cute. We bought her a pink bat so she would know which one is hers since she’s the only girl on the team. I told her that she’s special since she’s the only girl and she has to show the boys how it’s done lol. Their next practice is Saturday at 10:30 in the morning. Tomorrow we have to pay her registrations fees though.

The 21st is going to be so busy for us it’s ridiculous. First of all Javy’s sisters and brother are coming down to San Diego for some boat cruise thing with his sister Lisa’a baby daddy who apparently is in the navy and stationed here. Lisa’s bringing Jayden (Javy’s nephew) but he can’t go on the boat so she asked us if we could watch him. We haven’t even met him yet since they live so far away and he’s only six months so I’m a little iffy on how he’s going to react to us babysitting. Also that day is opening game day for all the baseball and tee ball teams in Paradise Hills. On top of that we also have a baby shower we’re not entirely sure we’re going to yet, but it’s still a possibility. But the biggest news of March 21st is the DVD release of TWILIGHT!! I’m so excited I can’t wait to buy it.

Yesterday I was watching a little bit of Dr. Phil, he was talking to octo-mom and he met the babies too. That chick has some serious issues. I’m not going into a big thing about what I think of her, but I will say that she needs to seek some help for whatever’s going on in her brain. Maybe learn about disease symptoms for her brain. Seriously she needs to Learn about disease symptoms from Dr Daniel Amen, a specialist in brain SPECT imaging. You can also find Dr. Amen’s profile here. Ya never know what might be wrong with her head right?

Javy’s coming home today! I’m so excited, I miss him so much. I definately could not be a single mom. So lots of love to all those single moms out there.

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Javy’s aunt Marisa is pregnant, I don’t think I ever mentioned that. She already has two teenage boys from a previous relationship. So obviously she was hoping for a girl. A couple weeks ago she found out that she’s having…..a GIRL! I was so excited for her when I found out. I’m hoping I can help with the baby shower. I saw the cutest shower stuff when I was shopping for JJ’s party (stuff I had to return ).  I just don’t know if we would have it at somebody’s house or in one of the banquet rooms in San Diego CAOr maybe a park? Probably someone’s house. I wish I knew who was going to have it so I can volunteer to help. I would do it myself, but we wouldn’t be able to afford that.

The only other question left is who is going to be pregnant with Marisa? Seriously Javy’s family can’t have just one baby at a time, they come in two’s and three’s. The last group that was born was a group of four, which is JJ’s group. *knock on wood* So far it’s not me, and I hope it stays that way lol.

Last night I dyed my hair, it came out a little bit lighter than it was. I’m thinking of maybe buying another box of the same color tonight to see if it can go even lighter. I also bought a couple books at Barnes & Noble, that I now plan on taking back later today lol. I do that a lot, I’m not sure why.

Javy is leaving for Arizona today for work. His bosses have a couple jobs left to finish from their company they had when they lived there. He’s not coming back til Friday :cry:  So I’m going to take my mom to Casa de Pico for a WW (wasted Wednesday lol) since we haven’t been there in a long time. Anyway Javy wants to take the ipod, but we need new headphones I think. While I was looking for some headphones online I found some sweet over-ear stereo headphones ;. Maybe when we finally move out I’ll get some decent ones for when I’m on the computer, hopefully Javy won’t chew the wire on them. Seriously he chews on anything and everything when he’s bored, he’s a like a dog lol. I don’t know why he does it, but he does.

I hope the days go by fast while Javy’s gone. It wouldn’t be so bad if we lived in our own place, but we still live with his aunt and uncle Okay I’m off to see if JJ will go to sleep yet.